Shared Suffering is Easier Suffering

“But at midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the prisoners were listening to them.” Acts 16:25

After completing countless solo training miles over the course of countless weeks in anticipation of an upcoming 100 mile race (happening this weekend) I signed up for, I was absolutely stoked when I saw that Fleet Feet Springfield was hosting a 20 mile run for those training for the Bass Pro Marathon (there was also a 10 mile option for those training for the Cohick Half) that I will be both running and pacing on November 1.

“Finally,” I told my husband (who is also training for an ultra this weekend and pacing the BP half), “we will have people to run with! I have been finding it super hard to keep my motivation up alone." 

And let me tell you what! The encouragement I received from fellow runners along the course led to my having the best run I have had in a long time. Lots of people were struggling, but struggling together made it so much easier and, in a strange way, made it much more enjoyable. 

But, you know, ask nearly any runner (especially those who run long distances) and they'll tell you that there's something about sharing the miles with others that makes the hard miles seem easier. The distance doesn't change. The hills don't get smaller. And the legs still get tired. But when we have someone beside us who understands what we're going through and why we choose to go through it, the suffering becomes easier to bear.

In this way, shared suffering makes for easier suffering.

And the same is true in our Christian walk.

To illustrate this point, we need only look at the story of Paul and Silas who were beaten severely before being locked in the inner prison (with their feet fastened in stocks) in Philippi for casting a demon out of a fortune-telling slave girl. 

Instead of despairing though, Paul and Silas (who no doubt mutually encouraged one another) began praying and singing hymns to God at midnight while the other prisoners listened. Suddenly, an earthquake shook the prison, opening the doors and loosening their chains. What followed was the conversion of the jailer and his household. Amazing, right?!

Their shared faith and steadfastness under extreme suffering provided a shared strength and a powerful witness to everyone around them. 

That's the power of collective suffering! It not only motivates individuals to keep going when the race gets hard but inspires those around them to continue running as well!

Think about that for a minute. Paul and Silas had every reason to complain. They were hurting. They were imprisoned. And they were uncertain of what would happen next. Yet, instead of focusing on their circumstances, they focused on God. And rather than allowing their suffering to steal their joy, they chose to worship together.

And people “were listening to them.”

So, in this race of life, be sure to surround yourself with other believers as often as you can my friend. It will not only serve to strengthen your resolve to press on when things get hard, but will strengthen theirs as well. This, in turn, will help you keep the joy in the midst of suffering that you might, like Paul and Silas, continue to worship God and influence those around you to do the same by your witness.

Heavenly Father, thank You for those people in our lives who will come alongside us and encourage us to embrace suffering as a means to grow our own faith and that of those around us. Lord, help us to be people who suffer well that we might choose to sing in the midst of our greatest pain; and in doing so cause those listening to seek the only One who can inspire this type of unusual behavior. It's in Your precious name we pray Jesus. Amen. 

Happy Running!