Do you just love Thea's attitude or what? I know I do. In fact, I was so inspired by her grit and tenacity that I reached out to her and asked, "Can you just kind of tell me about the other times when you had to start over? And also why it was important that you started over and did not quit. What is it that keeps you motivated to keep pressing on? And obviously you view failures as only stepping stones. Can you elaborate on that?" And this is what she said....
It would be easy for me to blame my do overs on the stress of life, the changes that are out of my control, or even my inability to not act out of pure impulse. However, I am tired of hearing my own excuses. We all have stress, we all have so many changes out of our control, and we can all let impulsivity take over. I think it comes down to my ability to choose me. To choose myself, my health, my happiness first. The first time I restarted was my 40th birthday, great excuse, right? The second time was me in a layer of self-pity that I wrapped around myself about some of the changes in my life. Each time, after I caved or “mistakenly” forgot to do my second work out I spent time truly debating on just pushing forward vs starting over. Each time, I realized I owe it to myself and my journey to do this honestly and successfully. I know I’ll succeed. I don’t know when, I don’t know how many more restarts I may have, nor do I care, because I know I will. I started this journey to be a better version of myself, as cliché as that sounds, it’s true. I want to be a role model to my children and accomplish the goals that I have set for myself. I am a proud member of the restart club but I’m ok with that because it means I didn’t give up and I won’t quit!!
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.” ―Dale Carnegie
"Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.” ―Harriet Beecher Stowe
"You do what you can for as long as you can, and when you finally can’t, you do the next best thing. You back up but you don’t give up.” ―Chuck Yeager
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” ―Thomas Edison
"If you fall behind, run faster. Never give up, never surrender, and rise up against the odds.” ―Jesse Jackson