“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her” Ephesians 5:25 BSB
In a heartwarming story titled "This Bride Challenged Her Guests to a Wedding Day 5K—and Ran 18:34" published by Runner's World on Wednesday, it was reported that Liv Paxton-Sprankle hosted a (completely optional) Beat the Bride 5K the morning of her wedding on January 3rd. Surprisingly, 26 of her friends (including her mother and the groom who is not a runner but trained for the event because of his love for his bride) took part in the challenge with a few of the guests even claiming PR's. The groom trained for the occasion, and had trouble sleeping the night before because he was nervous about the race. He finished in 30:57, just missing his competition, mother-in-law Wendy Paxton, who’d gone into the 5K with a goal of beating the groom, since the bride was in a league of her own. Paxton-Sprankle waited at the finish line to congratulate Jacob, as he ran into her arms, wearing a tuxedo t-shirt... “It was a wonderful start to the wedding day,” she said in a post-wedding TikTok. “It was literally the best day ever.” Now that's my kind of wedding!
And, you know, the same sacrificial love Jacob showed for Liv that compelled him to train for ‘the occasion’ is the same sacrificial agape love that Paul was referring to when he wrote, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.” This type of love that a husband is to have for his beloved is the same atoning love that compelled Jesus to die for the unworthy and those who didn’t love Him back. You see, while eros love is an important part of a healthy, God-honoring marriage, a divine, giving, absorbing, love that displays itself in self-denial for the sake of another is equally important. It’s a love that never changes and is given without demanding or expecting re-payment. It’s a love so great that it can be given to the unlovable or unappealing, and it’s a love that loves even when it is rejected. It gives because it loves, it does not love in order to receive. Is that an amazing description of Gods great love for us or what?
So, husbands love your wives “just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.” It may not be easy at all times, but it will be well worth it in the end.
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding us that, although eros love is an important part of a healthy marriage, agape love is even more important. Help us to love and respect our spouses as You have called us to do Lord, and help us to be spouses who are easy to love and are willing to put the needs of our spouses above our own. It’s in your precious name we pray, Jesus. Amen.
Happy Running!