“Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32 BSB
In an email that I received from Ultra Signup yesterday, the question was asked, "ARE YOU A SINGLE ULTRARUNNER?" followed by this description of a new app designed to pair up runners based on their love of the sport: The app you’ve been waiting for has finally arrived! Introducing UltraDating, where you’re guaranteed to find your pacer for life. We know you’ve been using UltraSignup to check the ages of those trail cuties you meet at races. Well, we’ve streamlined the process! With UltraDating, you can now swipe for real single ultrarunners. Filter by UltraSignup rank, preferred race distance, or even “loves long walks through aid stations.” Your sole-mate is just a swipe away. With my curiosity spiked, I clicked on the site and had to laugh at their marketing slogan that read, "Meet singles ready to go the extra mile" and at their depiction of a male and female ultrarunner running together with the man saying, "I'll be your pacer for life." Pretty cute right?
And, you know, while God designed marriage to be for life (barring biblical exceptions when divorce is permitted), a growing number of marriages (even among believers) don’t make it for a lifetime . Which is the very reason a godly marriage must be based on a mutual love of Jesus Christ because it’s the only foundation that never changes. You see, a marriage based on a mutual love of running, or anything else for that matter, is bound to fail, because nothing in this world stays the same. Running isn’t guaranteed to last. Injuries happen, and time takes the energy of the fittest, which means it’s a foundation built on sand, like everything else besides Christ. Furthermore, it’s only when two people are each focused on knowing Christ, pleasing Christ, and growing more like Christ that they will be able to “be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave” them—something that is crucial to the longevity and prosperity of any marriage.
So, if you’re considering marriage today, be sure to pick a partner who shares a mutual love of the Savior my friend. And if you’re currently married, be sure to do your part in staying close to Jesus. After all, the closer each marriage partner is to the Lord, the closer they will be to one another. And that’s what will allow them to stay married for a lifetime
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding us that the most important thing that a marriage should be built on is a foundation of Jesus Christ. Help us to model godly marriages Lord so that others would understand the importance of being equally yolked and intent on being kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving. It’s in your precious name we pray Jesus. Amen.
Happy Running!